Category Archives: Fathers

Update on my father

He was moved to hospice yesterday. I told my mother and she is, as expected, cold and critical and she started in on being mean and nasty to me.  Her hatred of my father doesn’t even end when she knows … Continue reading

Posted in Death, Father Loss, Fathers, Grief and Loss, Grounding, Healthy detachment, Narcissistic Mothers, Narcissistic Parents, Shame, Soul wounds | Tagged , | 15 Comments

My mother, my father, my self

My mother tried very hard to turn my sisters and I against my father ever since she divorced him when I was two years old.  But probably the worst conversation I had with her was nearly 2 years ago, when … Continue reading

Posted in Art, Art Journaling, Complex-PTSD, Divorce, Father Loss, Fathers, Grief and Loss, Healing Through the Arts, Motherhood, Motherhood and writing, Narcissistic Mothers, Soul wounds, Trauma | Tagged , , | 34 Comments