Category Archives: Antifragile

Sometimes I’m not a nice person

Sometimes I’m not a nice person. I know that. I accept that about me. Since I don’t expect anyone to understand me, except me, I will do what I need to do to tend to my own stuff and stay … Continue reading

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Echoes of the past

During the week between the 15th and the 21st of December, I was struggling a great deal with what I believe were somatic memories of what happened last year as well as partial dissociation.  The following is something I wrote … Continue reading

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Antifragile

Wind extinguishes a candle and energies fire.  Likewise with randomness, uncertainty, chaos, you want to use them, not hide from them.  You want to be the fire and wish for the wind.  This summarizes this author’s nonmeek attitude to randomness … Continue reading

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